Why do we switch to the majority language?
There are a lot of factors that contribute to a child being bilingual
- peers and extended family communicate within the minority language
- enough quality exposure to the minority language
- the perceived value of the minority language is high
- media consumption in minority languages- when the child gets older
Families switch to one common language to get rid of complexities in their lives. Here are some quotes from our families that may be right for many of us
- “It’s very hard for me to talk to my son in the minority language about feelings and when I need to set limits.“
- “I need to preserve energy and adapt to our environment, so going against it [my child speaking not Turkish] requires effort”
- “It’s just easier just go ahead and use both languages with my children.”
- “The topic is so important that I want them to REALLY understand (e.g. traffic rules)”
- “My children’s friends visit us and it feels weird to speak a “different” language”
- “I don’t want my husband to feel excluded. Our family language becomes more important.”
- “I support my children in doing their homework in the language that they learn in school.”
- “I simply don’t remember words in my native language and therefore it’s easier for ME to switch.”
Does that sound familiar?
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Categories: Bilingualism